2 things a guy should be able to ask

there are two things that a guy should just be able to ask, under certain circumstances, without embarassment or repercussions. someone ought to pass a law.

1) when a guy and a girl are first flirting -
guy: so... do you have ridiculous amounts of baggage? anything i should know?

2) when a guy and a girl have broken up, but are still hanging out -
guy: so... do you wanna have sex again?