Hi Jessica
Hi Jessica. This is your daughter. You walked out of her life 10 years ago. Look at her now. She's smart, and she's beautiful, and she's got a good heart. She's about to graduate from high school. But she doesn't understand why you're not a part of her life. She thinks there must be something wrong with her. If you can't be in her life, can you at least tell her why? Can you tell her that it's because of you, and not because of her? Can you tell her there's something wrong with you, and it's nothing that's wrong with her?
this is how i would tell a woman that had abandoned her child at age 7 to acknowledge that she is fucked up, and not her daughter. and that she needs to tell her daughter that she did nothing wrong. to anyone who reads this, how would you do it?